ADVISORY NOTE: Content for ADULTS ONLY. Contains explicit references to sexual activity.
My mom used to write articles for breastfeeding journals, providing tips and promoting the benefits of breastfeeding a child in their first few months. She was passionate about breast being best. I inherited more than my mom’s shape, I also inherited an appreciation for breastfeeding and here I am writing about it. However, I have never had children, so it is a different type of breastfeeding that I am referring to.
A friend who I love more than my right arm, told me that “peoples sexualities are some deep, unique and pretty specific rabbit holes”. I have noticed that under the umbrella of literotica, there is a wide variety of content. I think most of us know what we enjoy about sex and foreplay. We may be willing to try new things with the right person, but many of us might try something and decided it’s not for us, or we may have our limits and know for certain without even trying that something just does not appeal.
I think that erotic lactation or dry breastfeeding are pretty tame compared to some “fetishes” out there, but after having two lovers who craved extended suckling sessions, I have an appreciation for ABF or ANR. I have never lactated, but the two seperate relationships I had were with men who loved huge breasts and loved taking nipple and areola into their mouth to suckle for extended periods. Often that was a very peaceful calming experience, one that could be very tender and affectionate. You hear some people saying that is exactly what they want out of an ABF, a nurturing close bond. For others, it is just plain arousing, and leads to other foreplay and sex.
I differentiate the longer sessions of suckling from the fondling and caressing, sucking and licking in foreplay. There are some who yearn to have a long-term committed partner for ABF, and find it very difficult to find one. Sometimes within an already existing romantic relationship, a woman might not enjoy having her partner latch-on and suckle for a long time. Or her partner might not be interested in extended suckling, they might not get any satisfaction or thrill out of it.
People may encounter a lot of frustration in finding a partner who enjoys the same kind of sex and foreplay that they do, and it certainly does seem that when it comes to ABF, it is very hard to find a like-minded partner. I get the impression that for some people it is too “weird”, probably because they only associate breastfeeding or nursing with the wonderful way a child is nourished in its first months. They may not understand why adults would want to share this experience.
Based on my own experience, I can speak positively. In fact, it is something I do feature both in my romantic erotic novellas and in some of the fantasy fiction and erotic poetry posts on my blog. It’s probably because I have had very positive experiences with ABF that I write about it in a dreamy romantic way. In my case, it was my lover who had that desire, but as I am very affectionate and loving, I found it an act of giving to offer my breasts for him to latch on to and enjoy. It may not appeal to everyone, but for some it is deeply personal, perhaps I could go as far to say, a beautiful experience.