Ben and I have been chatting about the RASPBERRY RIPPLES blog. Ben has been helping me address some areas of imbalance in my life (too much watching the news, pushing myself with running, feeling excess guilt when I make mistakes, and being overdramatic when things go wrong) and I want to make sure this blog is balanced too.
Humans are not one-dimensional, and I never wanted my blog to be one-dimensional. I keep looking at my tagline “Lovers Lost and Lovers Found” and telling myself that erotic love, being a lover, having a lover, is always more than just acts of sex and foreplay – it about loving the whole of person you are with, inside and out. Loving all the layers of that person, being aware of their less attractive parts and nudging them perhaps to address those areas if they are damaging – but nonetheless assuring them that you love the human that they are, the heart that beats within them. That’s what Ben tries to do, he gives me a little nudge now and then when he thinks I need to correct the balance, address an issue. Of course, nudging is not always a little chat over a glass of wine, it could be playful spanking, it could also be “the naughty finger” which I need to prepare a post about one day.
When I was feeling anxious I wrote about my worries and my mood, and I don’t want to feel bad about that. The cathartic aspect of writing is valuable. I am not one dimensional. I am a human. I have a heart as well as beautiful breasts and a perfect behind. But Ben nudged me and advised me to keep it fun. I am having fun with lots of aspects of my blog, but I wanted to create a monthly series to inject even more fun in this blog. It’s time for some more fun! Sweet, naughty, pink fun!
#RASPBERRY RIPPLES FLIRTY FUN / #RRFF
So, every month I am going to ask you a question – a fun question. I want it to be pure naughty fun. It may be a little spicy, I think my first question is rather raunchy. But it will be light-hearted, sweet, pinkilicious fun! So look out for the image above which will contain one question each month. Feel free to answer the question in the comments, or if you would like to write something longer, please feel free to write a post to publish on your own blog and “pingback” to my question post. Or if you are a little shy about answering in public, send me (I should say “us” because Ben and I see the emails I receive through the blog) a message through the Contacts page. I will explain more as I go along. My first question I am going to publish on Sunday 1st November.
It’s just a bit of flirty fun with other bloggers. Ben wants this to be fun. Sometimes I feel anxious I never want this blog to be a threat to our relationship, so our little chats about it and all of his involvement reassure me that he is happy with me. Ben says he is happy with me. This is a great way to burn up my creative energy, he just doesn’t want me to burn out by digging too deep too often. He says to balance the blog out with lighthearted fun posts.