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Your Pussy Your Style

Lilith Avir manages to find some kinda provoking comments posted by other people online. I think it is once a month that she will select one of the outrageous remarks she has found and will choose it for NO TRUE WAY. We are invited to say what we think of the scandalous statement. This is Lilith’s NO TRUE WAY post for this month:

Are you ready for this?….

Somebody has published this nugget of advice:

So….I am not the kind of person who freaks out on first seeing something that I don’t like the look of.

I asked myself:

  • why would someone make such a dogmatic claim?
  • is there a medical reason behind their claim?
  • are the recommending waxing instead of shaving?
  • are they revealing their personal preference for intimate grooming?
  • or are they just simply being condescending? “ageist”? arrogant? dogmatic? opinionated? offensive?

I don’t know. Lilith has not told us the specifics behind this statement. So I can’t judge it within a specific context.

All I will say is this….I am in my thirties, but I have a feeling that when I hit forty, I will not want someone to dogmatically dish out advice on my personal and intimate grooming.

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If there is a medical reason behind the statement above – I want to hear it from my Doctor. If they are endorsing some spotlessly clean waxing salon – ok, I get that – through marketing businesses try to persuade us to buy into their recommendations. If they just prefer some pubic hair, well, that’s an opinion, they may be entitled to express their preference, but they could try to make their opinion more palatable.

Or if….if….they are laying down the rules about what women forty and upwards should and should not do – because women over forty need to be coached and told what to do right??? because women who are forty and upwards don’t know anything about their body??? – like is there anything they want to add to that statement? Like – I dunno – women over forty should learn to knit? get yourself a violet rinse? wear twinset cardis? only drive in the slow lane? Yikes!!!

My opinion – and yeah, maybe it is dogmatic – but I say that for any woman who is over forty – unless there is a valid medical reason to avoid shaving – groom your pussy the way you prefer. I would add to that – dance on tables! flirt with men half your age! wear killer stilettos! buy a motorbike and terrorise male drivers! If anyone tells you to “act your age” – you know what to do with those stilettos!

Or not – it is your choice. (#Knitting is cool!/#Twinsets rule!) By the time you are forty, surely you know how to make your own decisions and “own” them!

I am going to tag a song introduced to me by Mel – I love it! Sing it out loud: “I AM WHO I WANNA BE!

No True Way

22 replies on “Your Pussy Your Style”

I love your rant here! I am in the over 40 club and yeah, see, I can’t imagine anyone, ever, telling me what I can and can’t do with my pussy! Jeez, think of all the disappointed readers on here if I decided to be ‘over 40’ with my writing! If I needed advice on how to groom myself at this stage in my life I think I would have bigger worries than if I wax my pussy naked or not! Fabulous rant Miss Pink!🤣😂🤣

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Lilith picks some corkers hey!
Yeah – my first thought was how many women do I know 40+ who like to be told what they can and cannot do….with their bodies or anything else really?

I don’t like to get too heated when I don’t know who made the statement or what the context was – but if it was some hothead opinion – well, I would get them stretched out on the desk here to practice using the flogger after I have finished with Perfectdt!

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As a guy I can’t relate personally but I am 60 now but I can say I don’t feel old. Though as a 30yr old 60 was ancient! They should wait till they are the age before they say anything.

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My view on expressing personal preferences or opinions is that it is fine if you do so respectfully, acknowledging that there are other valid opinions – more than one way to skin a pussy!

As for how old we feel – I am sure you know that when it comes to age – you are as old as the woman you feel 😉

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lol – and I think some women express themselves quite creatively!

I am a little more simplistic in my approach. When I was a teenager, I decided that I did not want to have sex before taking a razor to my pussy. I don’t remember my first boyfriend even questioning it when we started having sex.

The thing that makes me smile is that Simon paid more attention to his intimate grooming than I did!!!

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But Simon was so vain about his body. My other lovers (three of them) did not worry if things were a little grizzly and unkept, and it did not bother me to see them with more pubic hair. I think pubic hair on a man is fine.
I can’t bear for my pussy to have hair, but Simon was even more vain than I was about his own body.

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Hmmm, next spring I hit 60 I know I won’t stop shaving my all’s a grooming back my pubic triangle. My Kitten shaves for me, why shouldn’t I return the favor?
In his pamphlet “On the choosing of a mistress”, Benjamin Franklin proposed that a woman’s honey pot was the last bit to show signs of age.
So why not keep it looking young?
And I agree with you. No one should dictate how a person does their personal grooming unless it is a matter of health.

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Yeah, I agree.
But in truth, I kinda think intimate grooming is personal, and between a couple to discuss their preferences etc. Unless there is some kind of medical reason, I think it’s a bit tyrannical people to declare “rules” on what people of a certain age should and should not do. It’s only going to annoy people I would have thought.

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