The TELL ME ABOUT… theme for this week is “FEELING SEXY”…and although there is a part of me that seems to naturally know what is sexy (I am sure I learn that from casually observing my mom) I also love to have a little help to feel sexy.
I know I have mentioned this in the past, but throughout the Pandemic, the external factors contributing to feeling sexy were less. For example, I was not commuting alongside thousands of hormone driven men, I was working from home. When I was out shopping or visiting branches in connection with work, face-masks covered over faces and smiles. With very little feedback from the world of man-kind I am unacquainted with, I have had to be secure about my own sexiness!
It is hard to be sexy ALL of the time! I mean…yes, I do have that natural…je ne sais pas…sexilicious factor that seems to always be hovering just beneath the surface. But work, mundane matters, and all sorts of other issues (like having a hobble when you walk!) can chip away at the sophisticated, chic, erotic mystique and leave you feeling a little grey and ordinary.
That is where Ben comes in very helpful. At weekends….when we can switch off to work…he can make me feel like a woman again! He can make me feel desirable, gorgeous, and able to incite ferocious hormones in him. It’s all good. Ben is just extra specially lovely when he knows I have had a tough week. Ben knows how to make this kitten purr again!