When I was a youth, I had no appreciation for how important it would be to learn to be balanced. As an adult, I now know that often success, peace, joy are much easier to attain if balance is a feature of your thinking, your emotional reactions, your decisions and your habits. Ben has helped […]
Just before you scroll down to see which song I have picked, I want to mention that I know that first video looks like it is going to be super-scary, but it is ok, I promise you. The video starts with him looking as if he is a mad man and all that red blood […]
In nine days time, the UK is scheduled to open up. I believe that decisions whether to proceed with some of the last major lifting of social distancing restrictions will be made on Monday. Will the “work at home if you can” mandate be lifted? Will there be a mass return to the office? I […]
I know those temperate nights stir stronger hormones. I know the blood races and the yearning deepens. I know that there are moments when you long for that mysterious woman in your life to miraculously make an appearance and without saying a word slip in between the sheets beside you. I can imagine you holding […]
This song is a little before my time. I should not start this post that way because I know it is going to mean I am in the bad books with a beloved friend of ours. But he is a few years older than I am! He suggestion of this song by Foreigner, which is […]
Last week, I bought a time machine, which was on sale. I have made use of it extensively to explore sex, kink and erotica in both the past and the future. Nobody would know that I have been elsewhere. I often time travel during my tea-break from work. As far as anybody knows, I just […]
Last week I featured probably one of the most overt commercials I have found, which was memorable really for all the wrong reasons. I think Cadbury’s could teach Carl’s Jn about how to create a sexy marketing campaign. There is no innuendo in their Milk Tray adverts and no provocative flaunting. Oh no, but this […]
I realized I had very mixed feelings on this subject when I thought about what to write. Thank goodness I do not have the ability to foretell the future, neither my own future, nor anyone else’s. It would have been awful to feel trapped by a destiny I could not control. I have gleaned so […]
I have picked a song that includes three of the four words in Jim’s Song Lyric Sunday theme for today – old, new and borrowed. It is also a sexy little track from the sexy little Kylie Minogue – who has charmed audiences for decades. Please enjoy your weekend and make sure you make time […]
I am so glad the weather has improved in this little pompous island of Britannia. At last I am not looking as pale as I was. I had shorts on and did a lot of my work out in the garden this week. Now my body is looking sun-kissed. Speaking of being kissed – Ben […]
