I have some very close and trusted female friends who I would share almost anything with – except, for salacious saucy secrets. However, with a lover….isn’t it funny how things you would not dare tell anyone slip out.
It shows the level of trust within an intimate sexual relationship. You cannot really give your all in sex without revealing that you have had prior experience (or you have watched it on the internet!)
Simon shared secrets with me. My eyes were popping out as he shared his most extreme secrets with me. I think he realized what a baby I was. I told him about the nature of my relationship with Greg. Simon seemed surprised. There were things he had not tried.
Over the past three years, I have shared things with Ben….things I would not want anyone else to know. The trust I have in him, to be allowed to admit things I guess. I actually find it helps me to “confess”. Some of us have guilt issues.
He is not so keen to share all with me. But Ben has often said that there was not much to tell from his dating in his twenties. He had girlfriends, they had sex. He claims it was all fairly “standard stuff”. Do you think I should believe that?
What secrets is Ben hiding? I can keep a secret. Maybe once we are married, he will trust me enough to share his saucy secrets with me. He is shaking his head. It’s the blog isn’t it!!! How am I going to convince Ben that I would not publish any saucy secrets he shared with me online?